Friday, May 1, 2015

"The Importance of Naming Your Emotions"

"Many of us aren’t aware of how we’re feeling at any given moment or what the impact may be. Most employers don’t give emotions much attention either, preferring that we park them at the door in the morning so they don’t get in the way during the workday.

Unfortunately, that isn’t possible for human beings. We’re not machines, nor robots...

The most prevalent unexpressed emotions in the workplace revolve around suffering. It’s not that suffering is a modern phenomenon or that it’s the only thing we feel at work. What seems to have changed is the pervasive impact of increased demand in our lives, leading to anxiety, uncertainty and a sense of feeling overwhelmed...

we can’t change what we don’t notice. Denying or avoiding feelings doesn’t make them go away, nor does it lessen their impact on us, even if it’s unconscious. Noticing and naming emotions gives us the chance to take a step back and make choices about what to do with them.

Emotions are just a form of energy, forever seeking expression. Paradoxically, sharing what we’re feeling in simple terms helps us to better contain and manage even the most difficult emotions. By naming them out loud, we are effectively taking responsibility for them"
http://www.nytimes.com/2015/04/04/business/dealbook/the-importance-of-naming-your-emotions.html


I would love to one day work in an environment where people routinely asked each other 'How are you feeling?'
Sometimes, people can be so afraid of emotions.

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